Ambiverts (people are both extroverted and introverted) tend to be more creative due to their greater flexibility in situations.
What makes the non-South Asian person’s use of the bindi problematic is the fact that a pop star like Selena Gomez wearing one is guaranteed to be better received than I would if I were to step out of the house rocking a dot on my forehead. On her, it’s a bold new look; on me, it’s a symbol of my failure to assimilate. On her, it’s unquestionably cool; on me, it’s yet another marker of my Otherness, another thing that makes me different from other American girls. If the use of the bindi by mainstream pop stars made it easier for South Asian women to wear it, I’d be all for its proliferation — but it doesn’t. They lend the bindi an aura of cool that a desi woman simply can’t compete with, often with the privilege of automatic acceptance in a society when many non-white women must fight for it.
49 and 50
49. Five facts about my appearance.
1. I’m asian
2. I have brown eyes
3. Dark brown hair
4. Hair length is to my tail bone
5. I’m like 5”3
50. Five facts about my personality.